What’s new pussycat?

Foto credits: Hilde Atalanta (The vulva gallery)

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Namasté goddess,

The subject of genitals is still quite a sensitive one to talk about. There are still too many people who look at their own body with disgust. Women are the great champions when it comes to this. How is it possible that the partner of a woman appreciates her lady parts more than she does herself? That’s terrible and it should change. This organ is beautiful and not a big deal to me. Anymore.

There are so many different ways to talk about your pussy. For many of us even the medical terms vulva and vagina are hard to say. It’s not my favorite, but do you dare to say CUNT? No big deal either, from a strictly verbal point of view.

I love myself. I love my vagina. It took years before I started to appreciate her and could embrace both my femininity and sexuality. I had to let go of everything I had learned to rediscover her. I had to relearn how to touch her so her energy could flow again. What a pleasure! I really wish that upon every woman.

Dear woman, do you have any idea how much power you and her together have? The seat of your creativity is there. It makes manifestation possible. You simply own the portal of life! Human creation is possible because of her. People are even willing to pay lots of money to have a moment or two with her. This is how powerful she is. Now you know why people from ancient times (mostly men) have done everything to limit this power…

I’m reading the book ‘A celebration of vulva diversity’ by the Dutch artist Hilde Atalanta. She has immortalized hundreds of vulvas in watercolor with the personal story of the goddesses themselves. It is very educational; she discusses anatomy and functions of the vulva and vagina. She also debunks myths / prejudices with facts. It’s a must for goddesses of all ages. So they know that they do are completely normal!

I feel very strongly that this is ‘my’ subject. I’ll write about this more often so please get used to it. In the meantime … Get in touch with your pussy, your kitten. Feed her and give her a well earned pat. Purr.


Plant that seed, make it grow and let it blossom…


Heal yourself for them too

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It’s up to us to break generational curses. When they say “it runs in the family” you tell them “this is where it runs out” ~ amazingmemovement.com

Namasté goddess,

A few days ago, I felt the strong urgency to write about family karma this week; recurring difficult life themes that are passed on from generation to generation.

Beloved powerful woman, in my short life of almost 35 years I have experienced al lot. Many beautiful moments, but also ‘things’ that shouldn’t have happened at all. Or maybe should they? Some themes keep coming back like a boomerang. And instead of being able to catch it, I just didn’t know this time where it came from when it hit me… Yes, ouch!

Sometimes it’s the case that previous generations had to deal with a number of recurring issues during their life. If these issues are left unsolved, they WILL be passed on to their descendants, either consciously or unconsciously. ‘Things’ just hijack the DNA! It starts in the womb. With every new addition to the family, the issue comes back to life.

Honestly, I‘m having a very hard time right now. I feel disappointed, angry, sad and scared at the same time. And quite frankly, I actually feel defeated by certain aspects of life. Why does this ancestral crocodile keep biting me in the butt (that flares slightly to the side)? Always the same old song from f#ck*ng prehistory!

Real life is NOT perfect at all. Perfectly displayed lifes on Facebook and Instagram aren’t telling the whole truth. Real life is beautiful but ugly too sometimes. It’s like a rough diamond. I’m not the type of person that pretends everything is okay. Even difficult moments deserve full attention. This is actually where spiritual growth begins.

One of my assignments during this life is to FEEL. Everything. To just sit with all that is. And to let it hurt when it is painful indeed. I’m an old soul and I already know some of my other missions during my last life on earth. Getting closure is very real to me. I should not only wrap ‘things’ up for myself, but also for my daughters and my ancestors. That family karma ends with me. Asé! I will heal for all of them. In time.

I already have proven to myself that I’m a strong woman. I’ve had my fine share of sheer sh*t, but I’m still standing! I accept this new challenge, knowing that it’s temporary and that everything will turn out just fine. It is time to make changes. I claim my responsibility.

Beloved ancestors,

I’m sorry.

Please forgive me.

Thank you.

I love you.


Plant that seed, make it geow and let it blossom…